
The Real Cost of Healing After Betrayal: Why "I Can't Afford It" Is Keeping You Stuck
Let me tell you about Maria.
Sitting across from me on Zoom she muttered, “Pete, I know I need this, but I can’t afford it.” Her voice cracked. “We’re already spending so much on regular therapy and I still feel stuck.”
That’s when I asked her to do something that changed everything: “Maria, let’s look at what staying broken is actually costing you.”
The Hidden Price Tag of Pain
Here’s what nobody tells you about healing from infidelity:
Traditional therapy costs $300–400 per hour
One session, once a week
While your pain? That’s 24/7
Research shows it takes 2–5 years to heal a marriage
Do the math: That’s over $31,200 just in therapy costs!!!
But here’s the real kicker — what about all those hours between sessions?
What about:
The 3 AM breakdowns
The Sunday afternoon triggers
The middle-of-workday panic attacks
The endless nights of insomnia
The “I Can’t Afford It” Trap
Sabrina was spending:
$300 on wine to numb the pain
$50 on sleeping pills
$600 on therapy that wasn’t specialized in betrayal trauma or unconditional love
Total: $1,050 monthly to stay broken
When I pointed this out, she said something profound: “Oh my God, I’m literally paying to stay in hell.”
The Real Question That Changes Everything
Stop asking “Can I afford to heal?”
Start asking “Can I afford to stay broken?”
Because here’s what staying broken really costs:
Your mental health
Your physical wellbeing
Your relationship with your children
Your career performance
Your sense of self
A Different Way Forward
This is why we created something different. Because we believe healing shouldn’t be a luxury. Support shouldn’t be out of reach.
For less than the cost of ONE traditional therapy session per week, you get:
FIVE live group coaching calls every week
A programme of recovery that is unique in its success rate (90%+)
Direct access to me via email
An archive of over 300 recorded sessions
Every answer you’ve been desperately searching for
Six months. SIX months.
That’s all it takes to build unshakeable foundations of unconditional love.
Not 2–5 years.
For $250 per week.
The Investment in Your Future
Lisa told me she “couldn’t afford it.” Then her husband bought a $3,000 golf club set. That’s when it hit her: “There’s money. Just not for my healing.”
She didn’t ask permission. She didn’t wait. She opened a 0% interest credit card and made the best investment of her life — in herself.
The Real Math of Healing
Traditional Path:
$400/week therapy = $1,600/month
2–5 years of healing = $31,200-$78,000
One hour of support per week
No support between sessions
No specialized betrayal trauma focus
Our Program:
$250/week
Six months to transformation
Five hours of live support weekly
A community for support
24/7 access to resources
Specialized betrayal trauma expertise
Thre only experts in the world teaching this
Direct access to expert guidance
The Men & Women Who Transform
They don’t have more money than you.
They just asked a better question.
They asked “HOW can I heal?” instead of “Can I afford to heal?”
Because they decided they were worth figuring it out for.
Your Turning Point
Right now, you’re at the most pivotal point of your life.
You can choose to stay stuck, telling yourself “I can’t afford it.”
Or you can ask “HOW can I invest in my healing?”
Because once you ask HOW, you’ll find a way.
You always do for everything else that matters.
It’s time you mattered too.
Ready to stop funding your misery and invest in your freedom instead?
👉 Book your Clarity Call here and let’s get you healing.
Because you deserve more than just surviving.
You deserve to thrive.
And I’m here to show you how.