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The Real Cost of Healing After Betrayal: Why "I Can't Afford It" Is Keeping You Stuck

September 22, 20253 min read

Let me tell you about Maria.

Sitting across from me on Zoom she muttered, “Pete, I know I need this, but I can’t afford it.” Her voice cracked. “We’re already spending so much on regular therapy and I still feel stuck.”

That’s when I asked her to do something that changed everything: “Maria, let’s look at what staying broken is actually costing you.”

The Hidden Price Tag of Pain

Here’s what nobody tells you about healing from infidelity:

  • Traditional therapy costs $300–400 per hour

  • One session, once a week

  • While your pain? That’s 24/7

  • Research shows it takes 2–5 years to heal a marriage

  • Do the math: That’s over $31,200 just in therapy costs!!!

But here’s the real kicker — what about all those hours between sessions?

What about:

  • The 3 AM breakdowns

  • The Sunday afternoon triggers

  • The middle-of-workday panic attacks

  • The endless nights of insomnia

The “I Can’t Afford It” Trap

Sabrina was spending:

  • $300 on wine to numb the pain

  • $50 on sleeping pills

  • $600 on therapy that wasn’t specialized in betrayal trauma or unconditional love
     
    Total: $1,050 monthly to stay broken

When I pointed this out, she said something profound: “Oh my God, I’m literally paying to stay in hell.”

The Real Question That Changes Everything

Stop asking “Can I afford to heal?”
Start asking “Can I afford to stay broken?”

Because here’s what staying broken really costs:

  • Your mental health

  • Your physical wellbeing

  • Your relationship with your children

  • Your career performance

  • Your sense of self

A Different Way Forward

This is why we created something different. Because we believe healing shouldn’t be a luxury. Support shouldn’t be out of reach.

For less than the cost of ONE traditional therapy session per week, you get:

  • FIVE live group coaching calls every week

  • A programme of recovery that is unique in its success rate (90%+)

  • Direct access to me via email

  • An archive of over 300 recorded sessions

  • Every answer you’ve been desperately searching for

Six months. SIX months. 

That’s all it takes to build unshakeable foundations of unconditional love.

Not 2–5 years.

For $250 per week.



The Investment in Your Future

Lisa told me she “couldn’t afford it.” Then her husband bought a $3,000 golf club set. That’s when it hit her: “There’s money. Just not for my healing.”

She didn’t ask permission. She didn’t wait. She opened a 0% interest credit card and made the best investment of her life — in herself.

The Real Math of Healing

Traditional Path:

  • $400/week therapy = $1,600/month

  • 2–5 years of healing = $31,200-$78,000

  • One hour of support per week

  • No support between sessions

  • No specialized betrayal trauma focus

Our Program:

  • $250/week

  • Six months to transformation

  • Five hours of live support weekly

  • A community for support

  • 24/7 access to resources

  • Specialized betrayal trauma expertise

  • Thre only experts in the world teaching this

  • Direct access to expert guidance


The Men & Women Who Transform

They don’t have more money than you.
They just asked a better question.
They asked “HOW can I heal?” instead of “Can I afford to heal?”

Because they decided they were worth figuring it out for.



Your Turning Point

Right now, you’re at the most pivotal point of your life.

You can choose to stay stuck, telling yourself “I can’t afford it.”
Or you can ask “HOW can I invest in my healing?”

Because once you ask HOW, you’ll find a way.
You always do for everything else that matters.

It’s time you mattered too.

Ready to stop funding your misery and invest in your freedom instead?

👉 Book your Clarity Call here and let’s get you healing.

Because you deserve more than just surviving.
You deserve to thrive.

And I’m here to show you how.

Pete Uglow is an experienced marriage coach and mentor dedicated to helping professional married couples navigate and heal from seemingly insurmountable challenges, including infidelity. With a deep understanding of the transformative power of unconditional love, Pete has successfully guided over 1,200 couples to restore and strengthen their marriages over the past 14 years. Married to his beloved wife, Nikki, for 37 years, Pete combines personal experience with professional expertise to foster resilience and connection in relationships. His compassionate approach empowers couples to rediscover joy and intimacy, even in the face of adversity.

Pete Uglow

Pete Uglow is an experienced marriage coach and mentor dedicated to helping professional married couples navigate and heal from seemingly insurmountable challenges, including infidelity. With a deep understanding of the transformative power of unconditional love, Pete has successfully guided over 1,200 couples to restore and strengthen their marriages over the past 14 years. Married to his beloved wife, Nikki, for 37 years, Pete combines personal experience with professional expertise to foster resilience and connection in relationships. His compassionate approach empowers couples to rediscover joy and intimacy, even in the face of adversity.

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