Hi, we're
Pete & Nikki

Founders of the

Restoring Love Pathway™

Hi, we're
Pete & Nikki

Founders of the

Restoring Love Pathway™

Welcome To

For the last 16 years, we’ve guided over 1200 couples walk through the aftermath of infidelity, crises, and the quiet pain of disconnection or loneliness in a marriage - helping them rebuild a stronger, safer, more deeply loving relationship, even when the divide feels wide initially.

And even though this 'About' page shares a little of our story, it’s really about YOU.

It’s about helping YOU find a clear way forward - a way to understand unconditional love and create the connection, peace, and lasting love you’ve been looking for, for so long.

How Our Journey Began

In 2009, our marriage imploded. Nikki discovered the truth about my long-term unfaithfulness, and her world fell apart. I was drowning in shame, and neither of us knew how to move through the hurt, fear, loneliness, and damage that had built up between us. It felt hopeless.


But that crisis became the beginning of a much deeper healing journey. With determination and coaching support we discovered a way to rebuild our marriage through the vital ingredient we had been missing all along: unconditional love.

Over time, our marriage began to flourish in a way we had never known before. We rebuilt emotional safety, found a deeper connection, and I began to heal the inner emptiness that had driven so many of my destructive choices.


We were so changed by what we had discovered that we felt called to share it with others.

Restoring Love was born from our own crisis — but today, it exists to help long-married couples facing many kinds of marital pain, find their way back to each other.

What Healing Required

Like most people, we faced real challenges along the way. No healing journey is without struggle, but those struggles shaped who we are today and helped us understand the pain, fear, and disconnection so many couples face.

One of the biggest challenges was learning how to stay present with Nikki’s pain without becoming defensive. Her questions, tears, anger, and fear were all part of the healing process. I had to learn to listen, take responsibility, and become a safe place for her heart again.

At the same time, I had to face what was happening inside me — the emptiness, shame, and lack of self-worth that had affected our marriage for so long.

As emotional safety grew, we both began to heal.

The peace, connection, and closeness we discovered felt like something we had never truly known before.

16 Years Of Experience You Can Trust

As I have just explained, our work is not built on theory alone. It grew out of our own hard-won personal experience, and it has since been shaped by professional training with the University of Chester, continued development with the International Coaching Federation (ICF), and thousands of hours spent supporting couples in crisis.

Together and spanning the last 16 years, Nikki and I have supported over 1,200 couples as they worked to rebuild their marriages through unconditional love. Some came after betrayal; many came after decades of conflict, distance, resentment, broken trust, or hopelessness.

One of the most encouraging things we have seen is that change often begins with one person. When one partner chooses to love with courage, consistency, and compassion, the atmosphere of the relationship can begin to change quite significantly.

What This Means for You

By now, you may be wondering, “What does all of this have to do with me?” I understand that.

What it means is this: you do not have to find your way through this alone.

We have done the research, invested in our training, learned from our own journey, and spent years walking alongside couples who thought their marriages were beyond repair.

Now you can draw on that experience, together with the support of a community of people who are all learning how to love differently, heal deeply, and rebuild connection one step at a time.

Whatever you are facing, you are not on your own.

This community can become your community too, if you choose to embrace it.

As one member recently wrote:

“Some of you are still unaware of what amazing human beings you are. So until you remember that, we will all keep reminding you.”

The Heart Behind Our Work


We believe no one should feel alone in the hardest season of their marriage and that EVERY marriage has the potential to be transformed.


Whether the pain has come through betrayal, conflict, distance, resentment, or years of feeling unseen, we believe healing is possible when love becomes selfless, honest, compassionate, courageous, and safe.


Our mission is to help people remember their divine worth and learn how to love in a way that brings healing rather than more hurt.

When partners heal the inner pain and fill their emotional system with unconditional love, relationships change.

Families change.

Hope returns.

Your Time Is Now.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

You don't have to keep carrying the pain, resentment, loneliness, or disconnection on your own.

There is a way to have the marriage you have always wanted. The marriage you deserve.

It will take courage. It will take support. But you don't have to figure it out alone.

If you are ready to explore what that could look like for you, we’d love to speak with you.

Our Team

PETE UGLOW

The Coach · Your Guide · Speaker

Pete is the one who walks alongside you through it all. He's spent 16 years helping people find their way back. He won't judge or criticise you and he won't hand you a rulebook. He'll help you understand what's really going on beneath the surface, and shows you that there's a way through.

NIKKI UGLOW

The Words & The Message

If something we've written made you feel understood — like someone finally got it — that was probably Nikki. She's the one who tells the stories, shapes the message, and makes sure the people who need us can find us. Everything you've read, watched, or felt a flicker of hope from along the way? That's Nikki's heart at work.

RHIANNON HUNTER

Your First Point of Contact

Rhiannon is often the first person you'll speak to. When you reach out, she's there to listen — to help you put words to what's happening, to understand where things are for you right now, and to talk honestly about whether and how we can help. No pressure, no judgement. Just a real conversation with someone who gets it.

"Pete and Nikki, I know you do not desire praise or accolades for the work you do, but please know that your program is changing lives, and I believe it is essential for our very human existence in this world if we are to love unconditionally and raise the emotional intelligence of the planet. So I say, thank you."

David A.

Consultant Psychiatrist